
When last did you take some advice? How’d it turn out?
You remember advice, right? Advice has got a bad rap from being what happens when your mom told you to wear a sweater, or a friend crushed your rock-star dreams by mentioning that your musical talents were a little off key. So when someone mentions an area we can improve on, or something we should try, we tend to think of it as criticism, rather than advice – which is a pity, as a good piece of advice can be really, really useful.
There is an art to taking advice. In a business or web context, a good piece of advice can save you massive amounts of time, and no doubt plenty of money. So then, what is the skill of taking advice all about?
People give advice all the time – the trick is sorting the good advice (the short-cuts that save you hassle), form the bad advice (things that cost you time and effort). A couple of elements go into this: What the advice is, who is giving it, and when it is given.
What the advice is seems like the most important element, but it often doesn’t determine whether we take that advice. If it is from the wrong person, it just washes over us and doesn’t have an effect.
Who is giving the advice in one sense shouldn’t matter. The advice should stand or fall on its own merits. But of course, this is not the case. We weigh advice very much based on who gives it. If the person is in a position of authority or knowledge, you give the advice more credence. And many times this is apposite. If a doctor tells you to eat less, that probably gets more weight than a friend who suggests you lay off the French fries at dinner.
And most importantly: when the advice is given. If it is given in the context of trying to help that person, and at a time when the person needs feedback, that advice will most probably be effective.
The best advice can be unsolicited. The problem with solicited advice is that the person doing the asking more often than not has already made their mind up, or has an opinion already and just wants their view reinforced.
I had a great piece of advice recently – to write more blog posts. So look out for more case studies, and customer stories of how we work with clients to help them grow their businesses.
Good advice can be a fantastic shortcut on the road of experience. So the next time you get a nugget of good advice, take it.
- Steven

